IF I JUST HAD....
1:04 PM Posted by MS.NOVA
*via email*Something is missing in my life. My life runs at 70% and I think that if i just had better clothes, more money a better job or lost a bit of weight, i'd feel good about where i am for my age. then i could meet someone and then i can get everything else going. people always tell me my life is great and that i'm so lucky to live where i do, but i'm not buying it. i'm not depressed, but i want more then what i have right now and i don't think i'll be happy until i get it.
What is missing in my life? How do I get 'it'?
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March 23, 2011 at 6:46 AM
Hmmm.....
I can't tell you what you are missing from your life, but based on the bones you tossed out (re: clothes, job, and weight) I am inclined to think there might be slight esteem issues which on a deeper level may be connected to a need to feel loved. Luckily, positioning yourself to "attract" the things you want into your life is pretty easy. If you want to lose a few pounds, don't spend anymore time thinking about it....ACTION IT! If you want to get a better job...ACTION IT! Improve your skill set and apply. When you start earning more money, then you can get the clothes you want.
The best way to figure out what you want, is to deal with the "knowns" first, so the path is more clear towards the "unknowns".
Just as you cannot win the lottery unless you buy a ticket (action), you won't fill the missing pieces in your life if you don't action them.
Take care.