3:23 PM Posted by MS.NOVA

As Valentines approaches, love is in the air but so is desperation! While out shopping for something special, girls were prepping for this romantic weekend by getting “hoe’d up” for the clubs. I suppose red latex does mean love…

 Their overt sexuality, while entitled to it, reminded me of the contrast between today’s R&B girls and the goddess that is Sade. Timeless, age appropriate and satiating you enough to crave more, Sade oozes sensuality. If a true icon commands women to be like her while men want to be with her, I doubt pink weaves and super push-up bras will stand the test of time. Too much tits and thighs after 35, is just, inappropriate and frankly desperate. Once you put it ALL your goodies out there, it’s hard to pull back, and as you age its not sexy, it’s ridiculous – case in point, Lil’ Kim.

 Sensuality is ageless – any man can appreciate the strength of a woman’s calves, or the smooth lines of her collarbone. But if you like tits pushed up to the jugular or have something left to the imagination, we can all agree that confidence rates high on the sexy scale. Ladies, this Valentines know that you are loved and deserving of it, do what makes you feel gorgeous, feminine and comfortable in your own skin because that red latex, it’s gotta peel off sometime.

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