i dumped my ex and now i feel she might be the one. she had goals, drive and a stable career while i'm still in 'mister cool guy' mode. it was a control issue (on my part) and i just couldn't make her what i wanted to be. now i feel that if i settled down and 'got it together' then she would come back. friends say i'll resent her and to keep my playboy lifestyle alive.
i miss her, but is that enough reason to settle down? how long can i keep up this player attitude for?
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